As a “seasoned sub” I have been enjoying BDSM sessions on and off for many years under the guidance of professional mistresses. I am rather “old fashioned”, as I am into the more traditional BDSM, rather than “Sex with Fetish elements”, all so fashionable since the “50 shades of Grey”. Some time ago my job brought me to the Netherlands for longer intervals, where I had the great pleasure and fortune to meet a very special person.
Lady Marveana is both a true LADY and MISTRESS, that got under my skin and into my brains deeper than anyone before her. Blessed with a tall and imposing figure, but more so with an extremely sharp and witty mind, she had me under her intellectual spell and thumb in no time at all.
Her statement of being a “mistress of the intellectual sub” is definitely not an empty promise. She sets the atmosphere by her persona, creates a conducive ambiance in a simple room with a few thoughtful alterations/additions. A few selected tools will be used to instill expectations and fear when purely on display, being used with utmost confidence when it comes to training, restraining and (if necessary) punishing her sub.
Lady Marveana is not your “usual service Domme”. You speak to her about our likes and dislike, and she will certainly listen well (she expects the very same from you!). However, what happens, when and to which intensity is at her sole discretion, as it is the sub that is to service the mistress and not the other way round. You may be surprised, to be given a task to complete, even before the first session. – I do recommend to take that wish serious and to make a considered effort.
If she accepts you as a sub, you are in for an encompassing and lasting Domme/sub relationship where the interaction gets better and more rewarding with every encounter until you cannot do without…
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As I am in a crossdresser with a very female mindset when “in role”, I can frankly say that I have met no one yet, that made me feel as much as a “girl” like Lady Marveana did, and who encouraged me to delve deeper and deeper into being and feeling female and becoming HER girly. When she put her strap-on to use for the first time, and took “possession”, my fate was sealed.
Lady Marveana is my virtual Mistress and i am Her virtual slave, obedient student, little foot doggie and lowly dog as She uses to call me with fondness.
my surname michelino has been picked by Her after our first and unique phone contact at the beginning of our relation. Unique because and so far, we have had only one voice interaction together. All other Mistress to slave interactions have gone exclusively through email, text messages and sometimes chat.
This makes our relation so special and unique. Such a thing may sound odd and bizarre but i can assure that this makes our relation very particular and intense.
As Mistress was underlining it recently, we ‘ve known each other from some time now – in some ways only virtual but in other ways much more than had we met in real life. In fact we know our respective Dominant and submissive feelings and i have reached a degree of confidence and submission to my Mistress that I am keen, open and willing to let Her know my good and bad moments, thoughts and feelings.
Mistress knows that, I know that she knows and this is the magic of it.
We met on a particular BDSM site and Mistress certainly felt and recognized my hidden potential. Very quickly she responded to my first message and took the lead of our discussions. i immediately felt a power and an irresistible attraction and responded to her questions and commands. After our initial phone conversation already mentioned above, and with my consent, she took the lead of my virtual slave education.
This was and still goes with assignments for which I have to disclose secret fantasies, hidden dreams, execute a number of tasks to show my obedience and submission. On these occasions, Mistress wants to have proofs and written report of my experiences, thoughts and feelings. This continuous relation and exchange, in all openness, set a very strong confidence between us.
The tone and attitude used by Mistress when She addresses to me and the tone and attitude i use when responding to Her, creates a Mistress to slave hierarchical relation which again forces me to be always more open and transparent so Mistress gets increased knowledge and power on me.
This is similar to a continuous improvement wheel, which feeds our mutual and respective benefits in terms of Mistress-slave relationship. The fact that all this happens in written and in virtual enhance the feelings and the relation because written communication requires much more precise thinking process and accurate expression of the feelings.
In such virtual relation, silence is even more critical than in verbal communication and silence is one of Mistress favorite punishment. Nothing is worse than when Mistress keeps silent a few days, a week or more and when i know she does it because i did something wrong and deserve punishment. Of course physical punishment also occur in the form of a special assignment, which requires careful and timely execution and ad-hoc reporting.